Tips To Improve Your Game

Here’s a something that’s helped my game
tremendously. After you had
sex for the first time, see if you can find out what it was that made
her want to have sex with you. While you’re at it,find out the when
part too. Both are important.

Be diplomatic here.

Here’s what I did last time. After a fun filled night at her
place(I’ll spare you the details), she made us breakfast and brought
it to bed. We talked a bit about the last night and then her sister
called because they were going to go to their aunt’s house to do
something with their aunt. We went back to the conversation and I
commented on her cotton sheets…she leaned over and so did I…I
smelled her neck and told her that I like how she smells. She said “I
think you want more”…and I of course couldn’t disagree… we went
for another round.

I forgot all about the damn breakfast! By the time we were done, it
was cold.But it was worth it. Anyway, then I said “I knew you were
trouble since I laid my eyes on you” She of course played coy and gave
me her “good girl” routine, but I wasn’t buying any of that.

I sensed she was good to be debriefed at this point, so I went first
and said “You know, when we sat down at XXX, I sensed there was so
much sexual tension you could cut it with a knife” She said “I know, I
felt it too” .Then I said “I normally don’t let things happen so
quickly, but this just felt right” She agreed. Then she went on and on
how there was so much chemistry between us that it was the most
natural thing and how good it felt. I agreed. Then I asked her WHEN
did she know we were going to “sleep together”(her words)? Can you
guess? After we sat down at our table and talked for less than 10
minutes! I told her for me it was just around the time the waiter
brought us our food (maybe 20 mins) and that if I were to pick one
thing that did it for me I’d have a really hard time…but I’d go with
her touch. She thought about it for a few seconds and then she said
that she agreed about the chemistry between us, but what really did it
for was my eyes!.

Note: I’ve heard a version of this over and over and it seems to work
for me really well. I’ve metioned what I do with my eyes in a previous
post.

Now, what can you learn here? To use your eyes to sporadically
communicate your sexual desire? Sure. But there is a more important
lesson here– notice what works and see if you can improve it.

Exceptions to this “rule” of mine:

*If she is shy, wait for a couple more “get togethers”– proceed slowly.
*If she is not as sexual as you are, proceeed slowly– 2 or 3rd get
together.
*Sometimes you don’t feel like doing it– maybe she doesn’t do it for you.
*Feel her out– be flexible!

Anyway, sometimes this may take 5 minutes and other times a lot
longer, but it’s worth it. Just go slowly and debrief them after sex
and find out WHEN they wanted to first have sex with you as well as
what it was about you that made them decide (this may be just their
rationalization- that’s OK, listen anyway) and you can’t help but
improve your game.

Ok, gotta go to bed. Hope someone will put this to good use.Here’s a something that’s helped my game
tremendously. After you had
sex for the first time, see if you can find out what it was that made
her want to have sex with you. While you’re at it,find out the when
part too. Both are important.

Be diplomatic here.

Here’s what I did last time. After a fun filled night at her
place(I’ll spare you the details), she made us breakfast and brought
it to bed. We talked a bit about the last night and then her sister
called because they were going to go to their aunt’s house to do
something with their aunt. We went back to the conversation and I
commented on her cotton sheets…she leaned over and so did I…I
smelled her neck and told her that I like how she smells. She said “I
think you want more”…and I of course couldn’t disagree… we went
for another round.

I forgot all about the damn breakfast! By the time we were done, it
was cold.But it was worth it. Anyway, then I said “I knew you were
trouble since I laid my eyes on you” She of course played coy and gave
me her “good girl” routine, but I wasn’t buying any of that.

I sensed she was good to be debriefed at this point, so I went first
and said “You know, when we sat down at XXX, I sensed there was so
much sexual tension you could cut it with a knife” She said “I know, I
felt it too” .Then I said “I normally don’t let things happen so
quickly, but this just felt right” She agreed. Then she went on and on
how there was so much chemistry between us that it was the most
natural thing and how good it felt. I agreed. Then I asked her WHEN
did she know we were going to “sleep together”(her words)? Can you
guess? After we sat down at our table and talked for less than 10
minutes! I told her for me it was just around the time the waiter
brought us our food (maybe 20 mins) and that if I were to pick one
thing that did it for me I’d have a really hard time…but I’d go with
her touch. She thought about it for a few seconds and then she said
that she agreed about the chemistry between us, but what really did it
for was my eyes!.