Things Your Should Never Say To Your Lady

June 12, 2010 by admin  
Filed under Dating Tips

They say that honesty is the key to successful relationship.  They say that without honestly, a relationship will crumble easily.  This is true, but just because you asked to be honest in the relationship doesn’t mean you have to divulge every thought and memory you have in your mind.  One thing you have to know about women is that they are very, very sensitive.  If you say something to them that they feel if hurtful or offensive, you’ll get in trouble.  It doesn’t even matter if you mean it or not, or if the things you say are already in the past.  Once you open your mouth about it, they will interpret your words using their own vocabulary.  Here are a few things you shouldn’t say to a woman:

First, always remember that when it comes to physical appearance, a woman should never hear negativity.  If you have to point something out, be as nice and discreet as you can in saying it.  For example, if your lady asks you if her butt looks big on the jeans she’s wearing, never ever say anything negative, even if it is true.  If she looks great on then sing her praises.  If she’s doesn’t, don’t say anything offensive.  Rather go the neutral route and say something like, “It’s okay.”  But then follow through with something like, “but I think today is more of a skirt day.  Why don’t you try on the skirt your mom bought you for your birthday?”

Another thing you should remember is a woman’s perception of your taste.  She will always see you taste in par with hers.  This means that your taste in things should meet her standards as well.  This should be easy to figure out in your mind.  If you feel like something you like does not meet her standards, don’t ever mention that you like it.  You’ll just end up having an argument.

Be honest with the things that count.  But with petty things, if you know that you’ll just argue when you speak, then it’s better if you just keep your mouth shut.