Getting “Mr. Hottie” Part III – How to Know If He Loves You

So you two have been dating for a few months now. As you get to know him, you find that “Mr. Hottie” is not just hot. He is also thoughtful, caring, responsible and every wonderful adjective that you can think of. And because of that, you found yourself falling for him fast.

Now you want to tell him about your feelings but the scared little girl inside you is screaming “Not yet! Wait till he tells you first!”

Yes, unfortunately he has not told you the three precious words yet. But you should not feel bad because some guys do have a problem in expressing how they feel. So sometimes, what they cannot say, they show. To you this means, instead of waiting and waiting for him to say it, just watch his actions to see if he is in to you.

How exactly would you know?

Well, here are some telltale signs.

1. When you meet, he does not just yap about himself, his terrible day at work and his family life. Instead he asks you how have you been doing and he is interested with what you have done since you’ve seen him last.
2. He listens when you tell him something important. In fact, he listens to you so much that he knows your friends and family even if he has not really seen them yet.
3. He is willing to give in to your little whims. He does your errands for you if you are feeling a little lazy and when you eat at home, he volunteers to do the dishes with you.
4. He tells you that you are beautiful even if you are having the worst of your bad hair days, even if your eyes are puffy from lack of sleep and even when zits are coming out of your face.
5. He tells you off when you are doing something bad. That means that he does not like you to go astray when you are with him. And finally…
6. He just cannot stop touching and holding you. After you make love, he stays to keep you close as you guys fall asleep.

Now when you see those signs, do not doubt anymore because pretty sure he is in love with you.

Catching Your Dream Girl Part II – How to Make Your First Date A Success

She agreed to go out with you! And together with the happiness you feel, comes the pressure for you to deliver. You know that this date matters because you feel like you have already met “the” one. She may be the only person who can make an honest man out of you.

And because of that, the question lingering in your mind right now is, what exactly can you do to make your first date a success?

Well, you can try the following tips to see if they work for you the way they worked for other men.

1. Dress appropriately. By appropriate, this means you wearing a nice dress shirt and a jacket on top of that. This is important because women in general like to dress up and if you dress down while they dress nicely, they may end up being disappointed or worse insulted with your sense of fashion.
2. Keep in mind that women in general love to be treated as queens. And queens do not really drive themselves around do they? So make sure that you at least offer her a ride on your date night.
3. Come on time. To be safe come at least 5 minutes before the time when you both agreed to see each other. This is important because coming on time shows your respect for her.
4. Have a plan in mind. Believe it or not, women hate it when they are asked on what they want to do during their first date. I mean come on, you are the man so just bring her to where you want to bring her and dazzle her.
5. Finally, no matter how hot your date turned out to be, do not spend the entire evening by thinking of ways how you can get into her pants. Instead, try your best to get to know her through a good conversation and have fun. This is important because when your date had fun during your first night together then you are more likely to get a second, fourth and perhaps a “gazillion” dates with her again.

Catching Your Dream Girl Part I – How to Get Her to Notice You

Each man has his own dream girl – that is something every man should admit to himself. And just like women, most males would do everything in their power to get her or at least catch her eye. But how hard is it to get her to see you?

Well, to tell you honestly, it is not really hard at all. This is because of the fact that women in general are more into details and are appreciative. So every little thing you do counts.

For example, if you want her to turn her eyes to you, then try to stand out. Not by being obnoxious of course but by being the exact opposite – by being respectful and caring. You have to somehow convey that you are not the typical man who is only concerned about himself but you also care about the people and other things around you.

How exactly can you show her this?

You can do simple things like opening a door for a lady, giving up your seat in the subway or helping a kid carry his stuff. All those may seem a little cheesy yes, but believe it or not, those things work because they do not fail in making her sigh in awe. Here is a warning though, if you plan to be chivalrous just to her attention, then make sure that you can carry it through. Otherwise if you seem inconsistent then that may just turn her off.

Now, if you are not really the type of guy who is into that sensitive stuff, you would not really have to change everything about you to get her. Remember this, women also love confident men, so muster up your courage, walk up to her, and introduce yourself. That will pretty much do it for you. Just try not to scare her by saying “Hey I’m Joe and I like you.” That is not flattering at all, in fact that may seem like a line coming from a stalker or something.

Those are some tips that I can share you. To sum it all up, for you to get a girl’s attention, you would just have to be nice, be confident and be yourself.