How to Meet the Girl of Your Dreams

1. Go out more often. How do you expect to meet the woman of your dreams if you’re always at home playing with your Xbox? Keeping yourself stagnant can deter your chances of meeting “the one.” You never know where or when you’re going to meet her so make yourself active.
2. Dress and look appropriate no matter where you go. Make sure that you look presentable when you meet “the one” because you really never know who that person is going to be. This doesn’t mean that you go all out metro sexual, if that isn’t your thing then keeping yourself clean and presentable will do.
3. Set your standards for who you want to be with for the rest of your life. Don’t set it too high because you’ve got your own shortcomings yourself.  Think of the qualities you’d want in her; looks-wise and personality wise.
4. Love and take care of yourself. Loving and taking care of yourself does not mean you are conceited. It means that you respect yourself and care about your well-being.
5. Take notice of the women around you—even the ones who you’ve known for a long time. Because it could be her! There are so many sides of a person that you have not seen yet and it’s worth a try. This is not to say that you should be attracted to every girl you know. If you’re attracted to a girl it doesn’t matter if you’ve known her for ten minutes or ten years! Get to know her more.
6. Do not try too hard. This is a classic case of the law of supply and demand. If you’re too enthusiastic and willing, women will get turned off by your seemingly desperate measures. Just be friendly. Whatever moves you have planned keep them subtle.
7. Concentrate on your career or whatever you’re good at. The man with the plan gets the girl. Someone who’s successful in their own right whether it be in skateboarding or as a doctor find it easier to attract someone of the opposite sex. Stability is a big turn on for girls.

Meeting Women in New Places

Are you a regular dater?

Just got out of a relationship?

Do you want a relationship?

Is your dating life in a rut?

The first thing you need to do is meet new women. Meeting women should not be seen as a strategic plan, it is actually a fun and exciting thing.

Meeting women is something a bachelor should always look forward to. Never think of it as a sport or a game where you need to make elaborate plans or a dreamy scheme. The best way to meet women, in hopes of finding the perfect partner for a relationship, is to do it spontaneously.

There are a million places to meet women; the trick is to figure out what type of woman you want to meet, and what you want to get out of that opportunity. For example, if you want to meet a sporty girl, you can go to health clubs and gyms. If you want to meet party girls, they’re most likely to be in clubs. You have to remember however that these are not hard cold stereotypes that are 100 percent accurate. Be careful not to box people you meet at certain places in one category.

If you’ve been out of the loop for a while, try going out alone, without you friends or your proverbial wing man. This way, you would not feel too conscious about the things you do. Most people find more courage in coming up to a woman when they know that even if they get rejected, nobody but the woman would have to know about it. The playful banters among your peers are sometimes a cause of insecurity when it comes to meeting women.

Be open to new experience, try going to new places and don’t just limit the things you can and cannot do. Try expanding your social network by frequenting places that you do not usually go to. Try having your daily end-of-the-day coffee at a different coffee place, or try going to a newly opened club. Changing the scene would send allow you to meet new people. Be spontaneous, and confident. Keep yourself open.

Catching Your Dream Girl Part IV – Special Ways How You Can Say “I Love You”

After much thought, you have finally decided to get in a real relationship with her. But in order to mark the day when you will finally become a couple, you want to do something for her, say “I Love You” in a different but special way.

Now to help you to do just that, here are some ideas that you can perhaps work on.

1. Send her some flowers. No, do not just send her a single bulk of her favorite blooms. Instead ask your florist to send her a bouquet every single hour. On each bouquet, write down a word from your message and keep the flowers coming in until you finally complete what it is that you are trying to say.The message can be anything from a simple “I Love You” to the more romantic “I Love You Jane. Will you be my girl?” It is really up to you, just be creative.
2. Go to a print shop and ask them to make a small tarpaulin for you that contains a similar message to the one written above. Then surprise her by posting that tarp on her door. After that, hide and wait for her until she gets home and sees your message. If you see that she is pleased, do a follow up by showing yourself and handing her flowers.
3. If you are someone who can really pull some strings, then take her to a concert or performance of your favorite band or singer. Request them to sing your song and ask them to dedicate it to her. After the song, hold her hand and whisper to her the words that you want to say.
4. If your lady is a pet lover, then try to tell her what you feel through a dog, a cat or lovebirds. Just give her the pet that she always wanted but never got to have and agree on taking turns in taking care of it. However note that if you are planning to do this, you must be up to the challenge of being a responsible parent to an animal. If you cannot commit, then do not even think about it.

Those are 4 tips that I can share with you. Hopefully those gave you an idea what you can do. Good Luck!



Catching Your Dream Girl Part II – How to Make Your First Date A Success

She agreed to go out with you! And together with the happiness you feel, comes the pressure for you to deliver. You know that this date matters because you feel like you have already met “the” one. She may be the only person who can make an honest man out of you.

And because of that, the question lingering in your mind right now is, what exactly can you do to make your first date a success?

Well, you can try the following tips to see if they work for you the way they worked for other men.

1. Dress appropriately. By appropriate, this means you wearing a nice dress shirt and a jacket on top of that. This is important because women in general like to dress up and if you dress down while they dress nicely, they may end up being disappointed or worse insulted with your sense of fashion.
2. Keep in mind that women in general love to be treated as queens. And queens do not really drive themselves around do they? So make sure that you at least offer her a ride on your date night.
3. Come on time. To be safe come at least 5 minutes before the time when you both agreed to see each other. This is important because coming on time shows your respect for her.
4. Have a plan in mind. Believe it or not, women hate it when they are asked on what they want to do during their first date. I mean come on, you are the man so just bring her to where you want to bring her and dazzle her.
5. Finally, no matter how hot your date turned out to be, do not spend the entire evening by thinking of ways how you can get into her pants. Instead, try your best to get to know her through a good conversation and have fun. This is important because when your date had fun during your first night together then you are more likely to get a second, fourth and perhaps a “gazillion” dates with her again.

Catching Your Dream Girl Part I – How to Get Her to Notice You

Each man has his own dream girl – that is something every man should admit to himself. And just like women, most males would do everything in their power to get her or at least catch her eye. But how hard is it to get her to see you?

Well, to tell you honestly, it is not really hard at all. This is because of the fact that women in general are more into details and are appreciative. So every little thing you do counts.

For example, if you want her to turn her eyes to you, then try to stand out. Not by being obnoxious of course but by being the exact opposite – by being respectful and caring. You have to somehow convey that you are not the typical man who is only concerned about himself but you also care about the people and other things around you.

How exactly can you show her this?

You can do simple things like opening a door for a lady, giving up your seat in the subway or helping a kid carry his stuff. All those may seem a little cheesy yes, but believe it or not, those things work because they do not fail in making her sigh in awe. Here is a warning though, if you plan to be chivalrous just to her attention, then make sure that you can carry it through. Otherwise if you seem inconsistent then that may just turn her off.

Now, if you are not really the type of guy who is into that sensitive stuff, you would not really have to change everything about you to get her. Remember this, women also love confident men, so muster up your courage, walk up to her, and introduce yourself. That will pretty much do it for you. Just try not to scare her by saying “Hey I’m Joe and I like you.” That is not flattering at all, in fact that may seem like a line coming from a stalker or something.

Those are some tips that I can share you. To sum it all up, for you to get a girl’s attention, you would just have to be nice, be confident and be yourself.