How to Choose the Right Guy for You

Emotions play a big part in a girl’s decision to choose a guy. A girl is usually attracted to boys who make them feel special. But almost every boy knows that this is what a girl looks for so they try to emulate this when they are courting you. Before you let your heart out of its cage and make a bad decision you must be able to detect which boy is genuine and which isn’t. While we can’t really do the deciding for you, here is a list of things you should take into consideration when choosing:

1. 1. Choose a boy who loves you as much as or more than you love him.

If you love him more than he loves you, you’ll be devastated when he leaves you. If he loves you more you’re sure he’ll never leave you—and even if he does you won’t be heartbroken.

1. 2. Choose a guy who’s not only there for sex.

How can you tell? Don’t sleep with him. If he stays despite that then you know he truly loves you.

1. 3. Choose a guy who’s emotionally stable

Because misery loves company he’ll most likely pull you down with him. Choose a person who is emotionally stable enough to carry his own weight. A person who’s insecure will constantly try to outdo you and try to make you feel insecure as well. You don’t need this in life.

1. 4. Choose a guy who’s financially stable

He doesn’t have to be rich; he just has to be able to take care of himself. By being able to take care of himself in all aspects of his life he shows that he is ready to take care of another person—you.

1. 5. Choose a guy who would choose you over anyone else

Make sure that you’re the person he really wants to be with.

1. 6. Avoid the possessive types

Sure it’s cute at first, but after a while, you’ll start to see that it’s becoming abusive. Telling you you’re his is romantic, but not allowing you to go out with friends is a totally different story.

1. 7. Verbal abuse is still abuse. Learn to spot it early

There is a difference between being tactless and verbally abusing your partner. Learn to know the difference