Getting “Mr. Hottie” Part II – How to Survive Your First Date with Him

So after a few more encounters, you finally got “The Invite” that you were waiting for. He asked you out for dinner!

Psyched about it, you are practically wracking your brain on what you should and should not do on your date. You do not want to screw it up so right now, you are basically open to any inputs.

And if you want inputs, then I will give you just that. Here are some tips that I can share you.

1. Do not over think about the dress that you are about to wear. Just be safe with your choice. Do not wear something too dressy and avoid going dressed down as well. This way he would feel comfortable taking you anywhere be it a fine dining restaurant or a casual dining establishment.
2. Engage him in an easy going conversation. This will be the best way for you to gauge how comfortable he is with you. And as you talk, just let him dictate the pace and listen. Do not rush him to open up. He will talk once he is ready.
3. And again, be yourself. Do not pretend to be someone you’re not. Keep in mind that he asked “you” for a date and not some perfect little Barbie Doll. So just go ahead and talk the way you would if you are talking to your friends. Doing this will give you a more “natural” aura and believe it or not, that will help him cozy up to you.
4. Do not be that overly proud girl who would offer to pay her part of the bill on the first date. I mean that is just rude and kind of insulting to your beau. Now if you are not someone who is comfortable with having someone pay for you all the time, then maybe offer to go Dutch during your 3^rd or 4^th date. At that point, offering to pay for yourself may even give you a plus point because that signifies that you can take care of yourself.

Those are the things that you must and must not do during your first date with him. Hopefully knowing this helped you relax a bit and your anticipation to get together with him more anxious.

Getting “Mr. Hottie” Part I – How to Get His Attention

You have seen him two or three times hanging out at your favorite bar.

Ever since you had your eyes on him, you cannot help but throw side glances at him. And why the hell not? He is just so gorgeous! Yet you sigh, knowing that you can never have your hands on that fine gentleman.

But hey, do not give up yet. As long as “Mr. Hottie” does not have a ring on his finger then you have a chance. So knock the shy girl out of your system and make your move.

Now the question is, what exactly can you do to get him to notice you?

Given the fact that you only encounter each other in a bar, you have to make it a point that you stand out a bit. Note, however, that “standing out” does not have to translate to dressing in a super tight blouse and a very short skirt.

That outfit may catch his eye for a short while but some men are simply not interested with women who dress like that. They fantasize about them yes, but they are not exactly the type of women they would want to take home and introduce to their mother.

So instead, just maybe try to dress up a little bit. If you are a woman who likes wearing black when going to the bar, just bring some colors to your wardrobe. Add a touch of red – men always find that color sexy.

Once you get his attention and you notice him looking at you, do not play coy by looking away. Just smile and say hi. Who knows, after that smile you might be getting a drink coming from him anytime soon. And if he did send you a drink, have the courtesy to walk over to him and say thank you. After that have a casual talk with him, find out what his interests are and let him know yours.

Oh and do not attempt to linger because that makes you look a little desperate. Give him a firm hand shake, throw him your best smile and tell him you loved meeting him and move on. You will know that you got his interest when he approaches you the next time you see each other again.

Now if your first attempt did not work, do not fret because pretty sure, you will still get another shot at it.

Catching Your Dream Girl Part I – How to Get Her to Notice You

Each man has his own dream girl – that is something every man should admit to himself. And just like women, most males would do everything in their power to get her or at least catch her eye. But how hard is it to get her to see you?

Well, to tell you honestly, it is not really hard at all. This is because of the fact that women in general are more into details and are appreciative. So every little thing you do counts.

For example, if you want her to turn her eyes to you, then try to stand out. Not by being obnoxious of course but by being the exact opposite – by being respectful and caring. You have to somehow convey that you are not the typical man who is only concerned about himself but you also care about the people and other things around you.

How exactly can you show her this?

You can do simple things like opening a door for a lady, giving up your seat in the subway or helping a kid carry his stuff. All those may seem a little cheesy yes, but believe it or not, those things work because they do not fail in making her sigh in awe. Here is a warning though, if you plan to be chivalrous just to her attention, then make sure that you can carry it through. Otherwise if you seem inconsistent then that may just turn her off.

Now, if you are not really the type of guy who is into that sensitive stuff, you would not really have to change everything about you to get her. Remember this, women also love confident men, so muster up your courage, walk up to her, and introduce yourself. That will pretty much do it for you. Just try not to scare her by saying “Hey I’m Joe and I like you.” That is not flattering at all, in fact that may seem like a line coming from a stalker or something.

Those are some tips that I can share you. To sum it all up, for you to get a girl’s attention, you would just have to be nice, be confident and be yourself.

Get Yourself a Guy, Boyfriend 101

Around 6 out 10 women today are single, unattached, or have “it’s complicated” as their relationship status in the major social online networks. Are you tired of being single? Are you itching to change that relationship status and do you want to have a regular date to the movies? All women do, and it’s about time you do something about it.

Get a boyfriend now. Make yourself open and available for a relationship. First, be ready for a commitment. Most women nowadays have commitment issues. Before you go out there and get a boyfriend, ask yourself twice if you are ready for all the complications it brings with it. Relationships should not be seen as strapping yourself down or locking a ball and chain on your ankle. IT is simply a matter of finding the right person.

Do not be too choosy but never settle easily. To make sure that you get the boyfriend who is right for you, know what you want, what you expect and what you are willing to give. Think about the qualities you are looking for in a boyfriend and make sure they are realistic and reasonable ones. Be sure as well that you are ready to give as much as you intend to get from this relationship.

The next step is to find the lucky guy. This is where most women get stuck. It’s actually a lot simpler than is seems. You just need to open yourself up to opportunities and the possibility of love. Be open to going to new places, meeting new people and getting to know others more. These are the three things you need to do in order to get yourself a boyfriend. Do not plan too far ahead when it comes to relationships; just let nature and fate run their normal course. Getting a boyfriend is one thing that cannot be forced. Just let it flow naturally.

Your job is to put yourself out there. Be available. Do not cram your calendar with work and other obligations, make time for yourself and work on your personal relationships. Getting a boyfriend is not an automatic process, it takes times and energy but it is fun. After all, it takes a few errors in trial to come up with the perfect match.

Getting A Girl Number?

I think getting a girls number is completely over-rated.
Basically, after talking with some girls last night that I ended up
hooking up with, she told me what Aaron had told me that night
earlier. Girls will go out to just give out their numbers as a sort of
competition or whatever. It’s ironic because guys go out competing to
see how many numbers they can get. My friend has it happen to him many
times; girl gives him her number then flakes. Sometimes it works out
but I would say more then 60% of the time it doesn’t.

Recently I’ve made the decision that unless I kiss the girl that
night or set up a future date, I’m not going to ask for her number. I
know there is tons of literature on how to prevent flaking but I don’t
think that stuff works that well. I guess part of it is that I really
don’t care that much about any one girl. Just wanted to see what you
guys thought about this.

Also, I can’t tell you how valuable field experience is. I know
it’s hard and you’ll fail but it’s going to be your best lesson.

Eye contact – Simplest, Most Sure-Fire Ways Which Always Work

Let me start off by saying I’m no guru; I’m not some master PUA.
I’ve probably done around 50 cold approches (since I started like 2
months ago after reading a lot) had some good results, whatever. So
take what I say with a grain of salt. I need a ton of practice and
that’s what I’m trying to do.

I guess what I would say about this is you don’t want to come off
as “too eager”. If you smile at her and she smiles back and you say
hi, then that’s a natural exchange. If you smile at her and she
doesn’t smile back but you say high and your back is more or less to
her then I think you’re not going to come off as desperate. Does that
make sense? Your body language says no but you are saying yes. I’ve
never really done this in the field; I usually look over my shoulder
and say hey guys, and then go to the opener. It also depends if you
are going to go with a more direct game (usually works on that girl
that you think is hot but others may not, I’ve found this usually
means you have some sort of connection or she has attracted you, these
are often the best to go for). When I say direct, usually that means
she will say hi back or whatever; she might just be shy. This is sort
of stream of consciousness since I’m walking out the door but I think
it’s an interesting point.

I’ve seen many different conflicting opinions across pick up
boards. One other example is one PUA saying opinion openers aren’t
good because it shows you need something from her. Others will say
it’s a hook question and girls like that. I personally like opinion
openers but I’ve also been asked if I was taking a survey or something
if I stuck with it for too long. I think the best idea is to just get
field experience, try some lines or openers on your friends that are
girls; see how they respond. I can’t stress the importance field
practice. It also is great if you view it as practice. I’ve gotten
quite far with girls sometimes and just walked away because either
I’ve been disinterested or just didn’t care enough or achieved my
objective (practice openers, rapport whatever). Sorry, I’m drifting
but I hope you get my point, just go see what works and tell us about
it. I’ll mess with it tonight and tell you if I have any interesting
results. Oh, and something George said earlier ALWAYS BE HONEST.

Where To Find The Type Of Woman You Would Like To Meet?

What you really looking for?
Go to places where you think you can find the type of woman you would like
to meet.
The type of music you enjoy listening to.
Then upon that, search the net about night life places in your area, look
them up, usually there is a website listed . See what type of people go to
these places and how they are dressed, because it’s very very important to
dress fashionly nice in those places, since competition is too high.

Talk to girls you see in public places, open them by asking ” Hey guys, my
sister and my cousin coming down next week and you might tell me about a few
good places in town, just moved in, Any places we shouldn’t go near” that
would get her to talk and to think, then she’ll be telling you about good
places to see or places she goes to and from here you can take the
conversation in any direction you wish.

3-4 days later you call her and talk, maybe meet over a drink then the week
after you call her and after 3 minute talk, you tell her than your sister
couldn’t get off work, so no visits, but hey, you got me interested to go to
the place you suggested, lets do this this Friday or Saturday”

Places to consider finding those girls, depending on what you really looking
for
clubs 17+
clubs 21+
public gatherings
book stores
coffee shops
malls
university
gym

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