What Can Make Your Man Happy

Men are visual beings.  That is a fact.  But just because they are visual doesn’t mean they don’t use the other parts of their brains.  It has always been said that men are shallow and dense.  Of course, there really are men like this.  But it would be unkind to generalize.  The truth is that majority of the men in this world are sensitive.  But because of chauvinist concepts like pride and machismo, they don’t display their sensitivity publically.  And because men are really soft on the inside, it is important to know what can make your man melt.  This way, you can make him love you more.

One sure thing that can buy a man is appetite.  It is said that the fastest way to man’s heart is through his stomach.  This is true, but only partially.  A man would enjoy the food you give him better if you share it with him.  Nothing is sexier to man than a woman who indulges in food.  Some men are shallow and superficial, preferring their women skinny.  But a good quality man would always want his lady to be healthy and happy.  If you want to get to guy’s good graces, take him out for ice cream and share one big banana split with him.

Another thing you should remember when looking into pleasing your man is to give him his space.  This is a golden rule for men.  Whether he is married or single, a man would want to have time away from his significant other.  Never hold your man back from his personal time.  This would totally turn him off.  Rather, take the initiative to offer him personal time.  And don’t be insecure.  Don’t permit him personal time then get angry at him later for wanting to be away from you.  You should learn to come into terms with this reality.  This personal time is nothing against women and their actions in relationships; it’s just that men need time for themselves every now and then.  Always remember that men love women who are willing to give them conditional freedom.

What Can Make Your Woman Happy

A lot of men say that women are very complicated.  That is a fact.  Women are complicated.  But just because they are complicated doesn’t mean they are impossible to figure out.  Woman might have shells that are hard to crack, but once you find the right pressure points, it is easy to woo them.  Women get annoyed at a lot of things that men do, but actually there are more things a man can do that can make them swoon.  You just have to know a couple of things about your lady.

The first thing you need to know is what she likes.  Some women like shopping, while others like sports.  Whatever it is they like, make sure you involve yourself in them.  You don’t have to be a fan of it; just make sure you know a thing or two about the topic.  For example, if she’s fan of Tolkien, take time to read some of his work.  You don’t have to read all of his books (though she’ll be happier if you do); just brush up on the topic.  Take a crash course in Middle Earth 101 and lean the basics of Tolkien’s work.  By doing this, you have more to talk about when together.  She’ll love the fact that you’re making an effort to please her.

Another thing you should do is to make great memories with her.  Women are very sentimental.  That is a fact.  The more sentimental memories you make with her, the more special you will become in her eyes.  You can do this by telling her what you feel in creative ways.  You can compose a song for her, take her out to a romantic dinner date by the lake or write a short story inspired by her.  Women are feeling persons.  They attach more value to emotionally-filled events.  If you do things like these for her often, she will find you irresistible.

In order to make a relationship successful, you have to make an active effort.  Be part of her life as much as she wants you to be part of hers.

Seven Ways to Prevent Unnecessary Heartbreak

1. Collect and select—discreetly

One of the biggest injustices in life is that girls can have many suitors while boys can only court one girl at a time. But there’s a loophole in the deal: you can get to know a girl without proclaiming your undying love for her. Just be friendly and know whether or not you can be with this girl. Go out on friendly dates. Don’t be tied down to one girl immediately.

1. 2. Do not settle for a girl just because she’s the only one who responds to your advances

This is a relationship that is doomed to failure. If you settle for the first girl who responds to your advances then you’re drastically limiting your choices. If you’re not that attracted to her then you may want to keep looking.

1. 3. Do not settle with a girl just because she sleeps with you

This relationship will be fun at first but you’re soon going to realize how empty your relationship is, especially if you can’t stand her personality.

1. 4. Choose a girl who you’re comfortable with

Are you comfortable telling things to her? Would you be friends with her even if you weren’t attracted to her? If you answered yes to both of these questions then she may be the one for you. You’ll know when you’re comfortable with a girl when you’re not trying too hard. This is because she accepts you for who you are.

1. 5. Choose a girl who have the same values as you

If she’s not comfortable with having pre-marital sex and you are, then it’s obvious that you’ll clash somewhere in your relationship. Compromise is the key to these kinds of situations but if you’re not willing to do this then maybe she’s not the girl for you.

1. 6. Do not concentrate so much in a girl’s looks.

This seems like the hardest one on the list. But you’d be surprised that being attracted to a girl despite her physical flaws is quite common. The looks reel you in but it’s the personality that keeps you going.

1. 7. Choose a girl who shares your interests.

Common interest is the key to starting a great relationship. It’s what you’re going to talk about in the first few dates and it will keep you talking for longer than that.

Screw the Pick Up Line! Strike a Conversation!

Your dates, for some reason, always end in disaster. You’ve come home cursing your lack of flirting skills and below average social skills. You start to wonder if it was something you did.

Chances are it’s something you did and didn’t do! Flirting is a game you have to play and enjoy. And what you do is just as important as what you don’t do. Some people know the rules by instinct, others had to learn it. It’s never too late to learn how to flirt even if you’re social abilities have been likened to an asexual flower.

A common mistake that guys do when picking up girls is using a pick up line. When, in the history of dating, has pick up lines ever work? Unless you’re trying to be funny or you’re just that outrageously good looking that women would forgive your lapse in judgment then you’d better ditch the cheese. Yes, she’s probably heard that before.

What you need to do instead is to strike up a conversation. You can talk about anything around you. For instance you noticed that she ordered a drink. Ask her if it’s any good. When you can’t think of anything to say, look around you. Think: who, what, when, where and how; current events, famous personalities a good movie anything that can start a conversation. From there you can keep the conversation going. Remember not to try to hard though. Try to avoid awkward silences but don’t keep babbling either. Learn to read body language in order to make sure that she’s still interested. Show that you’re interested in her with your body language but don’t say anything explicitly yet. Striking up the balance between the two is the tricky bit.

Learn to know when a woman is not interested. Learn to take rejection well. Although your goal is to get women to like you, you’re not going to attract everyone. You’ll be wasting your precious time and effort on a girl who is not into you when you can move on to the next equally beautiful or even more gorgeous girl.

Getting “Mr. Hottie” Part V – How to Keep Your Relationship Strong

So you are finally done with the whole getting-to-know-you stage. At this point, you do not have to snag him anymore simply because he is officially yours. You are now a couple! Now you can finally rest and be contented with the outcome of your efforts.

But here is the thing though, are you really supposed to just rest and bask in your glory so to speak?

Of course not! This is because having a relationship with Mr. Hottie (whom I think we should now call Mr. Right) is just the start. You have to continually work for your relationship to be successful. And your work starts with understanding who he is as a person.

See, when you are already with him, that is when you will be given the chance to see and discover some aspects of his personality that you may have never noticed before. Be warned that most likely, you would not love every new discovery. But then again, you cannot really dump him just because he farts too much or he barfs a lot right? Instead, you must learn how to tolerate these little things. After all, you have to remember that you are also not perfect at all. So who knows, he may also see a lot of things that he has to tolerate about you.

Also, now that you are both in the next level, try to open up your line of communication to your partner. If you can, try to avoid keeping secrets from him that can potentially destroy your relationship. So if you feel that he has to know something about you, then let him know. Be reminded that only when you are honest to him can you expect him to be honest to you.

Lastly, no matter how much you love being with him and seeing him all the time, try to still live your life as an individual. Keep spending time with your friends and try to develop a new hobby if you want to. This part is important because when you both keep on developing individually, you get to be more mature on your disposition in life and love.

And that ladies conclude the series on “Getting Mr. Hottie”. Hope you guys learned a lot and good luck!

Getting “Mr. Hottie” Part IV – Creative Ways to Tell Him You Love Him

After observing him for a couple of weeks, you are finally convinced that he loves you. Yes, he has not really told you yet but you really care less. As long as he shows you how he feels towards you, then you are fine.

Now, your plan of telling him how you feel is in the picture again. But because you want it to be really special, you want to stay away from the usual scene where you just blurt it out. Thing is, because you are not exactly “creative” you seem to be running out of ideas. But just like before, you should not panic because if ideas are what you need then I think that I can help you with that.

So without further delay, here are simple but creative ways how you can tell him the three words.

1. Write and mail him a letter. Yes, you read that right. Mail – as in the old fashioned way. Telling him how you feel through and SMS or an email is just not romantic at all and it does not seem like you even spent any effort.
2. If writing on paper is not that impressive to you, then write where he least expects you to – like his bathroom mirror perhaps. Just take bath soap and use that as a writing material instead of a pen.
3. Say it with music. Compile a CD of your favorite songs and somewhere within the tracks, record your voice as you confess to him how much he means to you. Then give the CD to him and ask him to listen to it before he sleeps.
4. Take him out to dinner. As in surprise him by volunteering to fetch him and paying for the bill. And some time during your dinner, hold his hand and tell him what you have to say.

Those are 4 simple but creative things that you can do to let him know that you care for him. Of course you do not have to follow those tips to the last detail.

If you want you can tweak them a bit to make them seem more you than me.

Catching Your Dream Girl Part IV – Special Ways How You Can Say “I Love You”

After much thought, you have finally decided to get in a real relationship with her. But in order to mark the day when you will finally become a couple, you want to do something for her, say “I Love You” in a different but special way.

Now to help you to do just that, here are some ideas that you can perhaps work on.

1. Send her some flowers. No, do not just send her a single bulk of her favorite blooms. Instead ask your florist to send her a bouquet every single hour. On each bouquet, write down a word from your message and keep the flowers coming in until you finally complete what it is that you are trying to say.The message can be anything from a simple “I Love You” to the more romantic “I Love You Jane. Will you be my girl?” It is really up to you, just be creative.
2. Go to a print shop and ask them to make a small tarpaulin for you that contains a similar message to the one written above. Then surprise her by posting that tarp on her door. After that, hide and wait for her until she gets home and sees your message. If you see that she is pleased, do a follow up by showing yourself and handing her flowers.
3. If you are someone who can really pull some strings, then take her to a concert or performance of your favorite band or singer. Request them to sing your song and ask them to dedicate it to her. After the song, hold her hand and whisper to her the words that you want to say.
4. If your lady is a pet lover, then try to tell her what you feel through a dog, a cat or lovebirds. Just give her the pet that she always wanted but never got to have and agree on taking turns in taking care of it. However note that if you are planning to do this, you must be up to the challenge of being a responsible parent to an animal. If you cannot commit, then do not even think about it.

Those are 4 tips that I can share with you. Hopefully those gave you an idea what you can do. Good Luck!



Getting “Mr. Hottie” Part III – How to Know If He Loves You

So you two have been dating for a few months now. As you get to know him, you find that “Mr. Hottie” is not just hot. He is also thoughtful, caring, responsible and every wonderful adjective that you can think of. And because of that, you found yourself falling for him fast.

Now you want to tell him about your feelings but the scared little girl inside you is screaming “Not yet! Wait till he tells you first!”

Yes, unfortunately he has not told you the three precious words yet. But you should not feel bad because some guys do have a problem in expressing how they feel. So sometimes, what they cannot say, they show. To you this means, instead of waiting and waiting for him to say it, just watch his actions to see if he is in to you.

How exactly would you know?

Well, here are some telltale signs.

1. When you meet, he does not just yap about himself, his terrible day at work and his family life. Instead he asks you how have you been doing and he is interested with what you have done since you’ve seen him last.
2. He listens when you tell him something important. In fact, he listens to you so much that he knows your friends and family even if he has not really seen them yet.
3. He is willing to give in to your little whims. He does your errands for you if you are feeling a little lazy and when you eat at home, he volunteers to do the dishes with you.
4. He tells you that you are beautiful even if you are having the worst of your bad hair days, even if your eyes are puffy from lack of sleep and even when zits are coming out of your face.
5. He tells you off when you are doing something bad. That means that he does not like you to go astray when you are with him. And finally…
6. He just cannot stop touching and holding you. After you make love, he stays to keep you close as you guys fall asleep.

Now when you see those signs, do not doubt anymore because pretty sure he is in love with you.

Catching Your Dream Girl Part III – Signs That Show If She Is In To You

You are having the time of your life with her. Yes, this may sound a little bit cheesy but your girl is currently the sunshine in your life. It just seems like when she is with you, nothing can ever go wrong.

But despite the strong emotions you feel towards her, there is this uneasy feeling in the pit of your stomach. What is the cause of uncertainty?

It is the hanging question in your mind – does she love you or not?

Technically, that is something that you can just really ask her. But for some reason, you do not want to do that because that would just make you look so desperate. So instead of asking, you decide to just observe and see if she even has the slightest feelings for you.

So what exactly are the good signs that you should be looking out for?

Here are a few of them.

1. When she is with you, she just cannot stop laughing and smiling. Every now and then, you may also catch her throwing some fond stares at you.
2. She loves to be close to you. When you are walking side by side, she just cannot stop herself from reaching over and grabbing your hand. She also does not sit across you when you’re in a restaurant. Instead, she sits beside you so that she can lean over to you anytime she wants to.
3. She cares for your wellbeing. She reminds you to eat, drink your medicine or vitamins on time without sounding like she is nagging.
4. She knows and cares for your family and friends.
5. She is not afraid to show you her emotions regardless if she is sad, happy, depressed or frustrated.
6. She would rather spend time with you than shop.
7. And the final but perhaps the most obvious of all is: She hints on building a future together with you through planning trips, having discussions about moving in and sometimes even having kids.

Those are some signs that you should look out for. Now if your lady love displays the majority of them, you can finally rest knowing that she “digs” you too.

Catching Your Dream Girl Part II – How to Make Your First Date A Success

She agreed to go out with you! And together with the happiness you feel, comes the pressure for you to deliver. You know that this date matters because you feel like you have already met “the” one. She may be the only person who can make an honest man out of you.

And because of that, the question lingering in your mind right now is, what exactly can you do to make your first date a success?

Well, you can try the following tips to see if they work for you the way they worked for other men.

1. Dress appropriately. By appropriate, this means you wearing a nice dress shirt and a jacket on top of that. This is important because women in general like to dress up and if you dress down while they dress nicely, they may end up being disappointed or worse insulted with your sense of fashion.
2. Keep in mind that women in general love to be treated as queens. And queens do not really drive themselves around do they? So make sure that you at least offer her a ride on your date night.
3. Come on time. To be safe come at least 5 minutes before the time when you both agreed to see each other. This is important because coming on time shows your respect for her.
4. Have a plan in mind. Believe it or not, women hate it when they are asked on what they want to do during their first date. I mean come on, you are the man so just bring her to where you want to bring her and dazzle her.
5. Finally, no matter how hot your date turned out to be, do not spend the entire evening by thinking of ways how you can get into her pants. Instead, try your best to get to know her through a good conversation and have fun. This is important because when your date had fun during your first night together then you are more likely to get a second, fourth and perhaps a “gazillion” dates with her again.

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