Three Simple Dating Tips to Make your Night

Going on a date?

Are you feeling nervous?

Are you afraid that you might mess up the night?

Not to worry, just follow these guidelines and you’re guaranteed to have a next date even before she orders desert. These are some of the best dating tips you will need.

First, be on time. This is the first item on every dating tips list you can find out there. Women are known to take forever in getting ready for a date, but that is just one of the idiosyncrasies which make them more adorable. But tardiness in a man is not. Never make her wait. Women are many things but patient is rarely one of them. Your date begins, not at the time you get to the restaurant; it begins when the clock strikes the time you agreed upon. Moreover, this could set the mood for the rest of the evening. You want to start it right, not with a disappointed date.

Secondly, dress the part. Prepare for your date, if you planned to go to a fine restaurant, do not be happy with simply complying with the dress code, look your best. Your date most likely spent a good deal of time getting ready, and so should you. This will make her feel special because it is common knowledge that men are not really fond of getting themselves all dolled up.

Third and lastly, don’t make small talk, talk the talk. Small talk, when done badly could sometimes be insulting.  For example, if you’ve going a date with someone you’ve known forever, it would be silly to talk about the weather. Talk about things about the other person you are genuinely interested in, this way you won’t have to try to act interested because you will be. Try to come up with a list of talking points in your head so you would not have to deal with a moment of awkward silence. Don’t ask questions for the sake of asking them; ask about things you really want to know about. This would make the conversation engaging and steer clear of the boring.

Confidence

Confidence is half of the game. Most women are impressed simply by the sheer ability of a guy to carry himself well. In the same way, nothing turns women off more that a man who is not sure of himself. Women dream of being swept off their feet by a gallant prince-charming. Never in those dreams, however, was the prince charming timid man fumbling with his words.

Be confident, this is not as easy as the two words it takes to say it. But it is completely doable in time. In order to be a confident cat, you have to remember that, “All is fair in love or war.” It doesn’t matter if the next guy drives a Ferrari or has a Harvard Law degree. You have to remember that there are a million things about yourself that are yours alone. In order to seem confident, you have to be confident. There’s no two-ways about it.

When you are feeling insecure think about all of the things that only you can do or that you do best. Maybe you have mastered shooting hoops from the half court line, or maybe you can juggle ten bananas at once. These are small things you can draw confidence from. When you feel like you’re the lesser man, remember all of the things that you do that the other guy cannot. But as much as possible, try not to compare yourself to other people altogether. When you compare yourself to others, not only do make yourself envy, you also limit yourself with the good they can do. Try to find your confidence within yourself.

However, confidence sometimes comes dangerously close to arrogance. Be very careful not to cross this fine line. Never brag or name-drop, this only makes you look like a jerk. Remember that no matter how good you are, you do not have the right to look down at other people. Condescension is not confidence, its arrogance.

One of the key elements in dating is being confident. This confidence does not mean believing that you are better than everyone else; it simply means believing in your own self worth. Never put yourself down nor toot your own horn.

The Simple Yet Complicated Attraction in Women

Attraction in women is both simple and complicated. It is simple in the sense that it is automatic. When a woman finds that she is attracted to a guy, it’s locked down and irreversible. When you catch a woman’s eye and she sees something she pleases, it’s safe to say that she’s hooked. This is because women look for the metaphorical “spark.” This spark is the ever so evasive concept that makes her swoon, that makes her heart do somersaults over the butterflies in her stomach. Attraction for women is instantaneous and almost like spontaneous combustion.

The complicated part, however, is creating that spark when she sees you. We can only hope that attracting women is as simple as rubbing two stones together to make that spark. But sadly, it’s a lot harder than that. But thankfully, after much research and personal experience, we have figured out a few tips to help the lost bachelor along.

The first rule in attraction for women is never to try too hard. Women are automatically turned off at the sight of a guy who is trying too hard. Not only will you look like a joke, she would also forever associate you as that guy about whom nothing is impressive. The trick is acting naturally. Not only will you be more convincing, but you’ll also be more comfortable. Most men try to impress the woman with money, or with resumes or with power, but the unwritten rule is that, if you really have it, you don’t have to spell it out. It’s always much more impressive when you find out something truly impressive about a person out of nowhere. When you count your good points off your fingertips, it would only make you seem arrogant.

The second thing you need to remember is, be cool. Not in the sense of trying to look cool as that would be in direct contradiction to our first rule. Being cool here means don’t be too giddy. Don’t try to lock things down right after introducing yourself. At the end of the conversation, never ask “when will I see you again, never attempt to get a commitment when it’s not established that you’re entitled to one. Never sound as if you think the girl likes you enough to see you again. Just be cool about it.

Follow these two simple steps and your sure to get a third step closer.

Catching Your Dream Girl Part V – How to Build and Maintain A Strong Relationship

Finally, you have moved on from the “dating” stage to the “relationship” stage. And right now, you are loving the transition. Come to think of it, why will you not be happy? You love her and she loves you. Nothing can be more perfect and blissful than that.

But hey, not to burst your bubble or anything, I just want to remind you happiness is not all there is in relationships. There will be some instances where you and your “Dream Girl” will be engaged in a fight and faced with several challenges that can potentially destroy what you have. As such, it will be important for you and her as well to be prepared in facing these challenges by making your relationship stronger.

Question is, what exactly can you do to build a strong relationship with your girl?

Here are the answers to your question.

1. Strive hard to establish and maintain trust in between you two. You can do this by remaining faithful and refraining from lying to each other. Now that alone sounds pretty tough right? The funny thing is while trust remains to be one of the things that are tough to build, it also happens to be the easiest to shatter. So before committing in a relationship, make sure you can restrain yourself from the temptation of cheating and lying to your partner.
2. Respect each other’s space. Just because you are a couple that does not mean that you have to be literally together all the time right? Sometimes, it is best for you to spend a little away time from each other just so you both can grow and mature individually.
3. Fight if you must fight. You need to do this to release all the negative emotions inside you. But when you fight, make sure that you compromise with each other and that you patch things up before you sleep. This is important because you should not let your arguments create a gap in between you two.
4. Finally, communicate with each other. This is something that you will need to do because it will help you understand each other’s feelings without the guesswork.

Those are some of the answers that you may be looking for. At this point, everything may seem scary but if those things will eventually give you a happier and a more successful relationship, maybe they are definitely worth it.