Dating Tips for Women

Most women fret all day long about the date they have that night. This is because it is but natural for them to think about all of the things that could possible go wrong. But you don’t really have to worry about all that; there are ways to make sure that the evening will go smoothly.

First, be ready on time. The scene, wherein the date waits for the girl and gasps at the sight of her as she comes down the stairs, has forever been immortalized in our minds. We all want that magical moment. But no date would be in the mood to marvel at your beauty after waiting for two hours. Be prepared, look your best but be on time. A short 5 to 10 minute wait will be reasonable time for him to generate much anticipation to produce that awe when he sees you.

Second, dress comfortably. We all know that sky high heels are gorgeous but they don’t necessarily help in making the date a pleasant one. Be sure that you will be comfortable during the date, wear something that will make you feel like so. This is one of the best dating tips you will ever get.

The third dating tip is: talk and listen. Most bad dates are bad because of the lousy conversation. The woman is either too shy to engage in a conversation, or too talkative that she hardly lets him get a word in. Remember that the purpose of the conversation is so that the two of you can get to know each other better. So, do the right amount of talking and listing to fulfill that purpose.

Lastly, be yourself. This is a cliché but it is also a sound and effective advice. Do not try to be someone you are not. The purpose of the date is to provide the guy more information about yourself, and it would only make it pointless if you don’t let him get to know the real you. Plus, when you’re acting, or trying to project something other than your own personality, it sometimes comes across as fake. In addition, this dating tip could save you the trouble of keeping up the act when you get further along in you relationship.

Getting “Mr. Hottie” Part V – How to Keep Your Relationship Strong

So you are finally done with the whole getting-to-know-you stage. At this point, you do not have to snag him anymore simply because he is officially yours. You are now a couple! Now you can finally rest and be contented with the outcome of your efforts.

But here is the thing though, are you really supposed to just rest and bask in your glory so to speak?

Of course not! This is because having a relationship with Mr. Hottie (whom I think we should now call Mr. Right) is just the start. You have to continually work for your relationship to be successful. And your work starts with understanding who he is as a person.

See, when you are already with him, that is when you will be given the chance to see and discover some aspects of his personality that you may have never noticed before. Be warned that most likely, you would not love every new discovery. But then again, you cannot really dump him just because he farts too much or he barfs a lot right? Instead, you must learn how to tolerate these little things. After all, you have to remember that you are also not perfect at all. So who knows, he may also see a lot of things that he has to tolerate about you.

Also, now that you are both in the next level, try to open up your line of communication to your partner. If you can, try to avoid keeping secrets from him that can potentially destroy your relationship. So if you feel that he has to know something about you, then let him know. Be reminded that only when you are honest to him can you expect him to be honest to you.

Lastly, no matter how much you love being with him and seeing him all the time, try to still live your life as an individual. Keep spending time with your friends and try to develop a new hobby if you want to. This part is important because when you both keep on developing individually, you get to be more mature on your disposition in life and love.

And that ladies conclude the series on “Getting Mr. Hottie”. Hope you guys learned a lot and good luck!

Catching Your Dream Girl Part IV – Special Ways How You Can Say “I Love You”

After much thought, you have finally decided to get in a real relationship with her. But in order to mark the day when you will finally become a couple, you want to do something for her, say “I Love You” in a different but special way.

Now to help you to do just that, here are some ideas that you can perhaps work on.

1. Send her some flowers. No, do not just send her a single bulk of her favorite blooms. Instead ask your florist to send her a bouquet every single hour. On each bouquet, write down a word from your message and keep the flowers coming in until you finally complete what it is that you are trying to say.The message can be anything from a simple “I Love You” to the more romantic “I Love You Jane. Will you be my girl?” It is really up to you, just be creative.
2. Go to a print shop and ask them to make a small tarpaulin for you that contains a similar message to the one written above. Then surprise her by posting that tarp on her door. After that, hide and wait for her until she gets home and sees your message. If you see that she is pleased, do a follow up by showing yourself and handing her flowers.
3. If you are someone who can really pull some strings, then take her to a concert or performance of your favorite band or singer. Request them to sing your song and ask them to dedicate it to her. After the song, hold her hand and whisper to her the words that you want to say.
4. If your lady is a pet lover, then try to tell her what you feel through a dog, a cat or lovebirds. Just give her the pet that she always wanted but never got to have and agree on taking turns in taking care of it. However note that if you are planning to do this, you must be up to the challenge of being a responsible parent to an animal. If you cannot commit, then do not even think about it.

Those are 4 tips that I can share with you. Hopefully those gave you an idea what you can do. Good Luck!



Getting “Mr. Hottie” Part II – How to Survive Your First Date with Him

So after a few more encounters, you finally got “The Invite” that you were waiting for. He asked you out for dinner!

Psyched about it, you are practically wracking your brain on what you should and should not do on your date. You do not want to screw it up so right now, you are basically open to any inputs.

And if you want inputs, then I will give you just that. Here are some tips that I can share you.

1. Do not over think about the dress that you are about to wear. Just be safe with your choice. Do not wear something too dressy and avoid going dressed down as well. This way he would feel comfortable taking you anywhere be it a fine dining restaurant or a casual dining establishment.
2. Engage him in an easy going conversation. This will be the best way for you to gauge how comfortable he is with you. And as you talk, just let him dictate the pace and listen. Do not rush him to open up. He will talk once he is ready.
3. And again, be yourself. Do not pretend to be someone you’re not. Keep in mind that he asked “you” for a date and not some perfect little Barbie Doll. So just go ahead and talk the way you would if you are talking to your friends. Doing this will give you a more “natural” aura and believe it or not, that will help him cozy up to you.
4. Do not be that overly proud girl who would offer to pay her part of the bill on the first date. I mean that is just rude and kind of insulting to your beau. Now if you are not someone who is comfortable with having someone pay for you all the time, then maybe offer to go Dutch during your 3^rd or 4^th date. At that point, offering to pay for yourself may even give you a plus point because that signifies that you can take care of yourself.

Those are the things that you must and must not do during your first date with him. Hopefully knowing this helped you relax a bit and your anticipation to get together with him more anxious.

Getting “Mr. Hottie” Part I – How to Get His Attention

You have seen him two or three times hanging out at your favorite bar.

Ever since you had your eyes on him, you cannot help but throw side glances at him. And why the hell not? He is just so gorgeous! Yet you sigh, knowing that you can never have your hands on that fine gentleman.

But hey, do not give up yet. As long as “Mr. Hottie” does not have a ring on his finger then you have a chance. So knock the shy girl out of your system and make your move.

Now the question is, what exactly can you do to get him to notice you?

Given the fact that you only encounter each other in a bar, you have to make it a point that you stand out a bit. Note, however, that “standing out” does not have to translate to dressing in a super tight blouse and a very short skirt.

That outfit may catch his eye for a short while but some men are simply not interested with women who dress like that. They fantasize about them yes, but they are not exactly the type of women they would want to take home and introduce to their mother.

So instead, just maybe try to dress up a little bit. If you are a woman who likes wearing black when going to the bar, just bring some colors to your wardrobe. Add a touch of red – men always find that color sexy.

Once you get his attention and you notice him looking at you, do not play coy by looking away. Just smile and say hi. Who knows, after that smile you might be getting a drink coming from him anytime soon. And if he did send you a drink, have the courtesy to walk over to him and say thank you. After that have a casual talk with him, find out what his interests are and let him know yours.

Oh and do not attempt to linger because that makes you look a little desperate. Give him a firm hand shake, throw him your best smile and tell him you loved meeting him and move on. You will know that you got his interest when he approaches you the next time you see each other again.

Now if your first attempt did not work, do not fret because pretty sure, you will still get another shot at it.

Get Yourself a Guy, Boyfriend 101

Around 6 out 10 women today are single, unattached, or have “it’s complicated” as their relationship status in the major social online networks. Are you tired of being single? Are you itching to change that relationship status and do you want to have a regular date to the movies? All women do, and it’s about time you do something about it.

Get a boyfriend now. Make yourself open and available for a relationship. First, be ready for a commitment. Most women nowadays have commitment issues. Before you go out there and get a boyfriend, ask yourself twice if you are ready for all the complications it brings with it. Relationships should not be seen as strapping yourself down or locking a ball and chain on your ankle. IT is simply a matter of finding the right person.

Do not be too choosy but never settle easily. To make sure that you get the boyfriend who is right for you, know what you want, what you expect and what you are willing to give. Think about the qualities you are looking for in a boyfriend and make sure they are realistic and reasonable ones. Be sure as well that you are ready to give as much as you intend to get from this relationship.

The next step is to find the lucky guy. This is where most women get stuck. It’s actually a lot simpler than is seems. You just need to open yourself up to opportunities and the possibility of love. Be open to going to new places, meeting new people and getting to know others more. These are the three things you need to do in order to get yourself a boyfriend. Do not plan too far ahead when it comes to relationships; just let nature and fate run their normal course. Getting a boyfriend is one thing that cannot be forced. Just let it flow naturally.

Your job is to put yourself out there. Be available. Do not cram your calendar with work and other obligations, make time for yourself and work on your personal relationships. Getting a boyfriend is not an automatic process, it takes times and energy but it is fun. After all, it takes a few errors in trial to come up with the perfect match.