What Women Really Mean When They Say Something

It is said that one of the greatest mysteries in the world is a woman’s psyche.  A lot of men find it difficult to understand how a woman thinks and acts.  And because of this, most men have a hard time maintaining relationships with women.  It is very important to know women before you carry one a relationship with one.  Here are a few things women say that have double meanings:

You should always remember that women like to be surprised.  They prefer it if you figure out what they want on your own, but If they feel like a man is too dense to do this, they won’t hesitate to give out hints.  For example, your girlfriend says, “I really like these shoes, but I don’t have the money to buy them.” Being aware of her feelings, you offer to buy her the pair.  If she disagrees and says, “No, it’s just too expensive.  I can manage without it,” don’t take it literally.  This is a hint she is sending out that she wants you to get them for her, but she wants to receive them in a more dramatic way.  What you would do here is buy the pair on your own and surprise her with them.  You’ll be surprised how happy this will make her.

Another line you should never take literally is “I’m fine.”  Women love to elaborate on their experiences.  If they limit their replies to one line, that means there is something wrong.  When this happens, prod a bit more but not so much that you annoy her.  Do your best to find out more about her situation without intruding on her privacy.  This will show her that you care and trust her at the same time.

Remember that women think very differently from men.  It is usually hard to decipher the reaction of females.  Most of the time, when women say one thing, they actually mean something else.  Make sure to familiarize yourself with the female psyche before getting into a serious relationship.  You can minimize misunderstandings and be a better this way.

Getting “Mr. Hottie” Part IV – Creative Ways to Tell Him You Love Him

After observing him for a couple of weeks, you are finally convinced that he loves you. Yes, he has not really told you yet but you really care less. As long as he shows you how he feels towards you, then you are fine.

Now, your plan of telling him how you feel is in the picture again. But because you want it to be really special, you want to stay away from the usual scene where you just blurt it out. Thing is, because you are not exactly “creative” you seem to be running out of ideas. But just like before, you should not panic because if ideas are what you need then I think that I can help you with that.

So without further delay, here are simple but creative ways how you can tell him the three words.

1. Write and mail him a letter. Yes, you read that right. Mail – as in the old fashioned way. Telling him how you feel through and SMS or an email is just not romantic at all and it does not seem like you even spent any effort.
2. If writing on paper is not that impressive to you, then write where he least expects you to – like his bathroom mirror perhaps. Just take bath soap and use that as a writing material instead of a pen.
3. Say it with music. Compile a CD of your favorite songs and somewhere within the tracks, record your voice as you confess to him how much he means to you. Then give the CD to him and ask him to listen to it before he sleeps.
4. Take him out to dinner. As in surprise him by volunteering to fetch him and paying for the bill. And some time during your dinner, hold his hand and tell him what you have to say.

Those are 4 simple but creative things that you can do to let him know that you care for him. Of course you do not have to follow those tips to the last detail.

If you want you can tweak them a bit to make them seem more you than me.