Some Insight About My Dating Game

I’m realizing that my rapport skills kick ass. I have nothing to worry about
there. The area of my game that needs all the work is in attraction.

Here are my thoughts on rapport though. It is to do with being at ease – if
the other person is not at ease with your presence (they are tense), you do
not let this make you ill-at-ease or tense. Instead you just remain totally
comfortable. You communicate that you are comfortable in their presence by
just being comfortable.

I’m good at this. I have good self control when it comes to this particular
ability. This last girl today was like a block of ice, but I just sat there
and had the vibe that she is my best friend. I sometimes would look away at
something in the distance while I was talking, like you do when you are
talking to your friend, you don’t eyeball them all the time. Slowly they
begin to get in sync with you and become at ease, then you have rapport.

It is like slowly melting a block of ice by radiating a gentle warm glow.
This is why there is also this thing of them feeling “cold” or “warm”. Some
people are really cold, so you want your relaxed glow to warm them up.

I cannot imagine that any person who you do this with would not appreciate
it, even subconsciously. It’s my belief that everyone wants to connect, on
some level.