How to Woo a Girl into Becoming Your Girlfriend
June 6, 2010 by admin
Filed under Dating Tips
- Be a good conversationalist. Charm is everything. You should be able to go with the flow of a conversation. Learn what to say and how to say it. Never argue about sensitive issues and be sure to talk about common interests. The best way to be a good conversationalist—look her in the eye, shut up and listen
- Be her friend. Do not pretend to be her friend just to get into her pants. Genuinely get to know the person you are attracted to. This will be a true test on whether or no t you two are compatible.
- Know how to read and use body language. Around sixty percent of a conversation is based on body language. A nice tip is to imitate how your muse is currently posed. It creates an illusion that the two of you are alike and increases the attraction.
- Compliment her indirectly. This is probably more effective then the direct approach. How would you compliment someone indirectly? Comment on a trait or quality that you admire about the other person or thing then casually relate it to her. This will get her thinking on what you mean by your offhanded remarks.
- Give high regard for her opinion. Ask her what she thinks about things. But never agree to disagree. There is a fine line between keeping the peace and being spineless. Do not sound arrogant while stating your opinion and do not try to make her agree with yours. Respect is the key. Don’t just apply this to your girl but to others as well.
- Feign disinterest. This is the tricky bit. You have to show little hints of being attracted to her and not being attracted to her at the same time. This is very tricky and too much of one or the other can give you away. It’s best to keep yourself ambiguous and not give a straight answer if ever asked.
- Show her that you are serious about her when taking your relationship to the next level. Show her that she is more special then any other girl you’ve been with before. Your seriousness at this stage will determine whether or not you will push through with your relationship.
