How to Compromise in a Relationship and Prevent a Breakup

1. Remember that you two are of equal worth. Although you value her as your lover and your friend, remember that you too deserve the same love and attention that you give to her. Let her know through your actions that you aren’t her servant boy.
2. Learn how far your power goes into a relationship. She cheated on you. You blame it on yourself because you had a fight yesterday. Screw that. That doesn’t give her license to do what she did. Don’t blame yourself when your partner acts up. She has control over her actions not you.
3. Do not try to change yourself for her. It really depends on what you want to change. If it’s a bad quality or a destructive habit, then change it. But if it’s something as trivial as how you dress and carry yourself, then draw the line. She should accept you for who you are.
4. Do not try to change her.What you see is what you get. This is why the selection process is of utmost importance. If she cheated on her previous boyfriend, she’s likely to doing it again so choose very wisely.
5. Forgive her for her faults. Everyone makes mistakes once in a while. Depending on what she did, you should learn to forgive her. You’re bound to screw up too so look the other way even if it’s just this once.
6. Remember the important dates of your life. Birthdays and anniversaries are a given, but you get extra points if you remember trivial things like your first kiss or your first date. Don’t be too sentimental though. Depending on how your girlfriend is like, she may or may not appreciate you remembering every single detail.
7. Allow each other some personal space. Just because you are together doesn’t mean you have to know every little detail about her life. You need your privacy and she does too.
8. Never stop flirting. Flirting keeps the romance hot. If you think you can stop flirting just because you’re already a couple, it doesn’t mean you can put your guard down. Make your romance as fun as it was when you were first starting out.