How to Be Your Own Woman While In a Relationship
June 2, 2010 by admin
Filed under Dating Tips, The Dating Game
- Be active in other areas of life.Don’t exhaust all your energy in your love life. You have your career, family and friends to think about. Try to give equal importance to everything you have in life. If you center your activities on one person and that person leaves, you will inevitably get burned out.
- Love yourself more. You are the most important thing in your life. It is you and not some guy. Remember that when a guy does something bad to break your heart always remember that he’s not worth all the trouble of being sad for.
- Focus on your career or whatever you’re good at. You are not a woman defined by your man. You are a woman with your own thing going on. You love and support each other in whatever you do. Being your own woman makes you even more attractive to the opposite sex.
- Have your own life. Don’t always be available on his every whim. Let him miss you once in a while. If you’re always there then the spiciness of a romance can easily wane. But don’t be gone for too long lest he starts looking around.
- Do not place your happiness on a single person. If he’s mad, you’re sad. If he’s happy, you’re happy. This isn’t a sign of a healthy relationship. Giving him total control of your emotions will make you an emotional wreck. Remember that happiness should come from you and not from anywhere or anyone else.
- Learn to differentiate dependence from love. There is a big difference between love and dependence. Love is an action. Love is caring and giving. Dependence is needing and wanting. Do not go for a guy who needs you but abuses you. Dependent relationships are unhealthy relationships.
- If you think that you are a dependent person then you should get out of relationships for a while. Dependency will only cause further heartbreaks in the long run. Dependent people are usually those who cannot last long without being in a relationship. Women in these situations should learn to live on their own and find themselves. It’s better to suffer now then to suffer again and again.
