Getting A Girl Number?

I think getting a girls number is completely over-rated.
Basically, after talking with some girls last night that I ended up
hooking up with, she told me what Aaron had told me that night
earlier. Girls will go out to just give out their numbers as a sort of
competition or whatever. It’s ironic because guys go out competing to
see how many numbers they can get. My friend has it happen to him many
times; girl gives him her number then flakes. Sometimes it works out
but I would say more then 60% of the time it doesn’t.

Recently I’ve made the decision that unless I kiss the girl that
night or set up a future date, I’m not going to ask for her number. I
know there is tons of literature on how to prevent flaking but I don’t
think that stuff works that well. I guess part of it is that I really
don’t care that much about any one girl. Just wanted to see what you
guys thought about this.

Also, I can’t tell you how valuable field experience is. I know
it’s hard and you’ll fail but it’s going to be your best lesson.