Getting “Mr. Hottie” Part II – How to Survive Your First Date with Him

So after a few more encounters, you finally got “The Invite” that you were waiting for. He asked you out for dinner!

Psyched about it, you are practically wracking your brain on what you should and should not do on your date. You do not want to screw it up so right now, you are basically open to any inputs.

And if you want inputs, then I will give you just that. Here are some tips that I can share you.

1. Do not over think about the dress that you are about to wear. Just be safe with your choice. Do not wear something too dressy and avoid going dressed down as well. This way he would feel comfortable taking you anywhere be it a fine dining restaurant or a casual dining establishment.
2. Engage him in an easy going conversation. This will be the best way for you to gauge how comfortable he is with you. And as you talk, just let him dictate the pace and listen. Do not rush him to open up. He will talk once he is ready.
3. And again, be yourself. Do not pretend to be someone you’re not. Keep in mind that he asked “you” for a date and not some perfect little Barbie Doll. So just go ahead and talk the way you would if you are talking to your friends. Doing this will give you a more “natural” aura and believe it or not, that will help him cozy up to you.
4. Do not be that overly proud girl who would offer to pay her part of the bill on the first date. I mean that is just rude and kind of insulting to your beau. Now if you are not someone who is comfortable with having someone pay for you all the time, then maybe offer to go Dutch during your 3^rd or 4^th date. At that point, offering to pay for yourself may even give you a plus point because that signifies that you can take care of yourself.

Those are the things that you must and must not do during your first date with him. Hopefully knowing this helped you relax a bit and your anticipation to get together with him more anxious.