Getting “Mr. Hottie” Part I – How to Get His Attention
May 15, 2010 by admin
Filed under Meeting Men
You have seen him two or three times hanging out at your favorite bar.
Ever since you had your eyes on him, you cannot help but throw side glances at him. And why the hell not? He is just so gorgeous! Yet you sigh, knowing that you can never have your hands on that fine gentleman.
But hey, do not give up yet. As long as “Mr. Hottie” does not have a ring on his finger then you have a chance. So knock the shy girl out of your system and make your move.
Now the question is, what exactly can you do to get him to notice you?
Given the fact that you only encounter each other in a bar, you have to make it a point that you stand out a bit. Note, however, that “standing out” does not have to translate to dressing in a super tight blouse and a very short skirt.
That outfit may catch his eye for a short while but some men are simply not interested with women who dress like that. They fantasize about them yes, but they are not exactly the type of women they would want to take home and introduce to their mother.
So instead, just maybe try to dress up a little bit. If you are a woman who likes wearing black when going to the bar, just bring some colors to your wardrobe. Add a touch of red – men always find that color sexy.
Once you get his attention and you notice him looking at you, do not play coy by looking away. Just smile and say hi. Who knows, after that smile you might be getting a drink coming from him anytime soon. And if he did send you a drink, have the courtesy to walk over to him and say thank you. After that have a casual talk with him, find out what his interests are and let him know yours.
Oh and do not attempt to linger because that makes you look a little desperate. Give him a firm hand shake, throw him your best smile and tell him you loved meeting him and move on. You will know that you got his interest when he approaches you the next time you see each other again.
Now if your first attempt did not work, do not fret because pretty sure, you will still get another shot at it.
