Getting “Mr. Hottie” Part V – How to Keep Your Relationship Strong
May 19, 2010 by admin
Filed under Meeting Men
So you are finally done with the whole getting-to-know-you stage. At this point, you do not have to snag him anymore simply because he is officially yours. You are now a couple! Now you can finally rest and be contented with the outcome of your efforts.
But here is the thing though, are you really supposed to just rest and bask in your glory so to speak?
Of course not! This is because having a relationship with Mr. Hottie (whom I think we should now call Mr. Right) is just the start. You have to continually work for your relationship to be successful. And your work starts with understanding who he is as a person.
See, when you are already with him, that is when you will be given the chance to see and discover some aspects of his personality that you may have never noticed before. Be warned that most likely, you would not love every new discovery. But then again, you cannot really dump him just because he farts too much or he barfs a lot right? Instead, you must learn how to tolerate these little things. After all, you have to remember that you are also not perfect at all. So who knows, he may also see a lot of things that he has to tolerate about you.
Also, now that you are both in the next level, try to open up your line of communication to your partner. If you can, try to avoid keeping secrets from him that can potentially destroy your relationship. So if you feel that he has to know something about you, then let him know. Be reminded that only when you are honest to him can you expect him to be honest to you.
Lastly, no matter how much you love being with him and seeing him all the time, try to still live your life as an individual. Keep spending time with your friends and try to develop a new hobby if you want to. This part is important because when you both keep on developing individually, you get to be more mature on your disposition in life and love.
And that ladies conclude the series on “Getting Mr. Hottie”. Hope you guys learned a lot and good luck!
