Eye contact – Simplest, Most Sure-Fire Ways Which Always Work

Let me start off by saying I’m no guru; I’m not some master PUA.
I’ve probably done around 50 cold approches (since I started like 2
months ago after reading a lot) had some good results, whatever. So
take what I say with a grain of salt. I need a ton of practice and
that’s what I’m trying to do.

I guess what I would say about this is you don’t want to come off
as “too eager”. If you smile at her and she smiles back and you say
hi, then that’s a natural exchange. If you smile at her and she
doesn’t smile back but you say high and your back is more or less to
her then I think you’re not going to come off as desperate. Does that
make sense? Your body language says no but you are saying yes. I’ve
never really done this in the field; I usually look over my shoulder
and say hey guys, and then go to the opener. It also depends if you
are going to go with a more direct game (usually works on that girl
that you think is hot but others may not, I’ve found this usually
means you have some sort of connection or she has attracted you, these
are often the best to go for). When I say direct, usually that means
she will say hi back or whatever; she might just be shy. This is sort
of stream of consciousness since I’m walking out the door but I think
it’s an interesting point.

I’ve seen many different conflicting opinions across pick up
boards. One other example is one PUA saying opinion openers aren’t
good because it shows you need something from her. Others will say
it’s a hook question and girls like that. I personally like opinion
openers but I’ve also been asked if I was taking a survey or something
if I stuck with it for too long. I think the best idea is to just get
field experience, try some lines or openers on your friends that are
girls; see how they respond. I can’t stress the importance field
practice. It also is great if you view it as practice. I’ve gotten
quite far with girls sometimes and just walked away because either
I’ve been disinterested or just didn’t care enough or achieved my
objective (practice openers, rapport whatever). Sorry, I’m drifting
but I hope you get my point, just go see what works and tell us about
it. I’ll mess with it tonight and tell you if I have any interesting
results. Oh, and something George said earlier ALWAYS BE HONEST.